Lament Services

This is a time to reflect, become aware of God's presence, how He is working in us, bring our pain to God, and invite Him to begin (and continue) healing us. It is a process for trusting God with our pain instead of turning to other, inferior ways of coping. Unlike individual lamenting, a Service of Lament is a time for a congregation to cry out together to God and trust Him, together, broken as we all are. This is a time to stand together, both those feeling broken, and those who are sensitive to others' pain. We want to encourage our brothers and sisters with our presence especially when life is hard. Which is often. 

The best advice is to come with no expectations, open to just experience the service and meet with God. We will read scripture together, pray, hear dramatic readings, experience visual arts, solo and congregational music, and a symbolic way of surrendering our pain to Jesus. If you’d like to learn more about the upcoming service (songs, scriptures, drama, resources, etc.) send an email to info@gracebfc.org to be added to the regular Lament emails. (There is no sermon.)

You don’t need to be feeling sad right now to participate and lament alongside your friends and neighbors, to encourage and pray with those who are lamenting. This is how we carry each other’s burdens, bearing with one another, as the Bible encourages us. 

If you’ve ever wondered, 'HOW do I trust God with this difficult thing I’m going through?’ If you have a burden for those in pain and want to encourage them with your presence. If you’ve been ignoring your sadness, grief, or anxiety or other 'negative’ feelings If you would like to receive prayer or pray with someone If you’re dreading the upcoming holidays without those loved ones you’ve lost this last year. If you’re dreading the upcoming holidays because of broken or strained relationships. If you’ve been putting off praying about something hard. If you recently experienced loss and haven’t had time to process it (enough) yet. If you have experienced loss a while ago, but still don’t feel peace If you think you’d benefit from a time of introspection and prayer or just a good solid cry. If you feel isolated in your pain.

Lament is a model God gives us to deal with the bad stuff that happens in life. The Bible depicts many lamenters (think: Hannah, Job, David, Jeremiah and other prophets, and Jesus!) and even God laments through His prophets. It is normal to feel pain and to bring it to God. He wants us to seek Him in our pain. Feeling down is not a sin, nor does it indicate a lack of faith. 

The Bible tells us there is a time to be happy as well as times to weep and mourn. These 'times’ are out of proportion in our American culture that encourages us to only show the happy, not the weeping. Sometimes we focus so much on being happy people (especially on Sundays), that we try to skip over any sad or angry or grieving emotions we may feel. We don’t allow time to feel negative emotions.  Lamenting is how we trust God with our pain. It is how we trust God with others’ pain. Lamenting is deeply human.

90 minutes 

Wear something comfortable. There is no expectation you dress up or wear all black. Wear what is easy. If you wear mascara, we recommend waterproof. 

Nothing. The emptier your hands, the better. 

While there is nothing inappropriate, the service may be most appreciated by those ages 12 and up.

Please let us know if you would benefit from having childcare and we will do our best to provide it. Adults caring for children have all clearances as required in Pennsylvania. 

Contact Dani Sauvé or Sue Bickel through the church office at info@gracebfc.org.